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Adamant Denial

 

Adamant Denial
 
When dealing with a loved one addicted to drugs or alcohol you will undoubtedly experience adamant denial from the addict. The addict will minimize or deny any use of drugs or alcohol with such sincerity that you find yourself questioning whether or not you are mistaken. “I don’t use drugs.  I did before, but not now. A doctor prescribes my medication. I’m not that bad. I don’t need rehab. I’m not a junkie. I don’t drink every day. I can quit anytime I want to, I just don’t want to right now. That stuff was not mine; I was just holding it for a friend. I am fine, everything is OK. There is no problem”. All addicts become master manipulators and will do their best to stop these uncomfortable conversations and any other confrontations that may come up. The alcoholic or drug addict needs to find a way to get back to his or her comfort zone and adamant denial is the easiest way.
Addiction Rehab Help has counselors ready to answer your questions any time you call. If you think a loved one has a problem with Drugs or Alcohol but they are adamantly denying it give us a call, we can help you sort it out and show you how to find the real answers to how bad the situation really is. We can also help you find the best Drug or Alcohol Rehabilitation Center for their specific needs, or talk to you about interventions
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The True Nature of Addiction

 

The True Nature of Addiction
In almost every case of actual addiction it is not the substance (whether it be drugs or alcohol) that is the primary problem, although understandably it’s use is causing problems. However, the alcohol or drug use is but one of many symptoms of an underlying problem. What an addict or alcoholic is usually about is avoiding discomfort at some level. It may be emotional or mental discomfort (feelings on the inside), physical discomfort, or external stress; it is a lack of ability to confront these things that dictates nearly every move an addict or alcoholic makes, including their substance abuse. The operating basis of an alcoholic or addict, whether stoned or sober in nearly any situation is to avoid discomfort.
Many Drug or Alcohol Rehabilitation Centers miss the boat when it comes to dealing with the underlying issues of addiction. They will look only on the surface or the obvious problem, the substance abuse. However a truly effective treatment and recovery program will go far beyond the substance abuse, it will get to the underlying issue and cause, (the true problem).
Many addicts or alcoholics will go through the same program over and over again, each time they fail and they feel it is because they have not put enough effort into their recovery. In reality they have not received the help they truly need; they have not found the true problem in their lives that is driving them back to the substance abuse over and over again.
We can help you find a Drug or Alcohol Rehabilitation Program that offers real solutions to the cycle of addiction, and help you put an end to the destructive behavioral patterns in your life.
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How to find the Right Drug or Alcohol Rehab

 Finding the right “Drug or Alcohol Rehabilitation Center” for your loved one is not an easy process, you search the Internet and call center after center and all you hear is "we are the best Rehabilitation Center for your loved one." Every place you call is "The Best" if you listen to the sales people from the centers. Make no mistake these people for the most part are "Sales People" and they are paid to get you into that specific program.

 
  All Rehabilitation programs are not equal, unfortunately in today’s society where there is such a huge need for "Drug and Alcohol Rehabilitation" many people have found this could be a great money making business and that is all they are in business for. In a time when families are being torn apart by the cycle of addiction and they are calling to seek help a high pressure salesman is not what you need or want.
 
Addiction Rehab Help is a neutral party that will help you find the best "Drug and Alcohol Rehabilitation Center" for your needs. We will guide you through the different types of Drug and Alcohol Rehabilitation Centers and give you a list of several Centers that would fit your needs.
 
Addiction Rehab Help is not sponsored by or connected to any specific Rehabilitation Center or group of Rehabilitation Centers. Call for no pressure help in finding the Best Drug or Alcohol Rehabilitation Centers.
 
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When to Intervene

 Many parents are facing a difficult situation when they know their son or daughter is abusing drugs or alcohol but is denying it. As parents we want to do the right thing but at the same time we do not want to over react, or maybe just do not know what steps to take. When a person is in denial and not admitting they have a problem with drugs or alcohol, it does not mean there is nothing you can do, there are solutions.

The best and most successful solution to handle this type of situation is a family intervention. Many people have misconceptions about intervention, but this process can prove to be very successful for the drug addict and very beneficial for the family. When this action is taken, it truly can give the family a good piece of mind knowing they have done everything possible. An intervention will clearly state where the family stands with their loved ones addiction, and what they are willing to do for the addict. This means the addict can no longer manipulate, lie, or avoid the problem of his or her addiction. The addict is truly put in a position where it is either go for treatment or take full responsibility for the consequences. There are professional interventionists, who can assist with conducting an intervention, and help escort your loved one to treatment.
 
If you would like to learn more about “Interventions” or finding a “Drug or Alcohol Rehabilitation Center” call;
 
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“When should the addicts family get involved”

 Many families that have loved ones addicted to Drugs or Alcohol are standing by and waiting for their loved one to hit bottom. They are waiting for their loved one to ask for help, or to say they are willing to get help. The truth is that a drug addict or alcoholic has put himself or herself in a position where they have lost the ability to realize that there is actual help. It has come to the point that the only way of life they know is staying high; they no longer have the cognitive ability to realize they can live a sober productive life. When they do have some clean time, everyday is a struggle and an agonizing battle to stay that way.

 
The drug addict or alcoholics family plays a vital role in helping the addict, and it is extremely important to look at all the different types of rehabilitation centers available. When they find the one that is the best fit for their loved one only then; they can begin to work on getting their loved ones acceptance to getting help. Many families are surprised that when this process it done correctly the addict realizes there is help available and is willing to accept the help being offered to them.
 
Addiction Rehab Help is a referral and placement service, there is no cost for this service and we can help you find the best rehabilitation center for your loved one. We are an independent resource, not connected to any specific rehabilitation center. We have done the research for you and can help end the confusion of finding the best center for your loved one.
 
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Alcoholics Anonymous / The 12 Steps

 

The Twelve Steps
 
Alcoholics Anonymous was founded in 1935 in Akron Ohio as the outcome of a meeting between a Surgeon and a New York Stock Broker. After 4 years of working to refine the steps and setting up meetings in 3 different cities the group published their first book of the 12 steps and the stories that the founders had to tell; the year was 1939 and a fellowship like none other had been born. Today A.A. is established in at least 110 countries and has hundreds of thousands of people attending meetings worldwide.
The 12 Steps;
1.      “We admitted we were powerless over alcohol – that our lives had become unmanageable.”
2.      “Came to believe that a power greater then ourselves could restore us to sanity.”
3.      “Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood him.”
4.      “Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.”
5.      “Admitted to God, to ourselves and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.”
6.      “Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.”
7.      “Humbly asked him to remove our shortcomings.”
8.      “Made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became willing to make amends to them all.”
9.      “Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.”
10. “Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it.”
11. “Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God as we understood him, praying only for knowledge of his will for us and the power to carry that out.”
12. “Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to alcoholics, and to practice these principles in all our affairs.”
“A.A.s Twelve Steps are a group of principles, spiritual in their nature, which if practiced as a way of life, can help the alcoholic live an alcohol free live.

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Deadly Consequences

My youngest brother died on March 24th, 2003 due to years of alcoholism. The months following his death were marked by incredible pain, sadness and often anger directed at him. " How could you do this to yourself, how could you do this to your family"? So many unanswered questions for him which he can no longer answer. I started asking myself what we, his family, could have done different to prevent his death at the age of 39. I realized that we had no understanding about alcoholism and its deadly consequences. We did not understand that he had absolutely no control over his life and was not able to stop  drinking without proper help. We got mad when we smelled alcohol on him, we laughed when he was too drunk to find the bathroom and used the hallway closet, we made fun at him when he cut himself shaving or spilling his coffee because his body was deprived of alcohol and his hands were shaking so bad. We also made excuses for him when he was too sick to go to work and we always made sure that he had enough alcohol at home so he would not drive intoxicated. We enabled him, but we did not help him!!!! Six years have passed since his death, years filled with deep regret and sorrow for not intervening when his life was spinning out of control and we watched him destroying his health, his marriage, his life. Years of regret for not getting informed about this deadly disease while he was still alive, deep regret for not bringing him to a good long-term alcohol rehab center and getting him the help he so desperately needed and which would have saved his life.

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Life after addiction

 

 

Five years ago I entered a long term rehabilitation program; my life was a mess and I never though it possible that years later I would be happy and healthy or even still alive. When my family drove me 14 hours away from home and dropped me off I thought they were just throwing away their money. They dropped me off in the middle of winter in a place I did not know and had no way of leaving. Yes they forced me to complete the program or live in the streets; they were not giving me a way out of it. It was their style of an intervention.
 
Today I am a productive and active part of society; the long term program that I went through taught me how to handle life. It taught me how to live in the present and not get lost in my past. It taught me that no matter what I had done in my past it did not have to control what I would do in the future. I owe my life to that program and to the caring people that stuck by me through those horrible years of addiction.
The past is history, the future is a mystery. Living in the moment is a gift; that’s why they call it the “present”.
 

 

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