Posts Tagged ‘Hitting Bottom’
When to get help
For drug and alcohol addicts hitting bottom is not an option.
In resent years the widely accepted believe that an addict must hit bottom and ask for help on their own has been completely dicredited. For many years this was believed and followed only to find that many addicts never sought help before their addiction turned fatal and the loved ones were left paying for a funeral rather then treatment.
Rather then waiting for such a crisis to occur strategies have been developed to deliberately create a crisis and to use it to coerce the addict into treatment. In preparing for this event you must learn many things about addiction and how to handle the addict. With the addicts behavior it is easy for the family to become angry and indifferent toward the addict. Compassion and understanding will make this process more effective. Moral judgment and condesending attitudes will only make the addict defensive and hostile and push them further away from treatment.
Compassion and understanding are not words the family of an addict would choose when trying to deal with the addict. I understand the frustration and disapointment the family feels but the addict will not go to treatment because his or her family is mad at them. They cannot control their own behavior, the shame and embarrassment of their own actions is what drives them to contiune down the self distructive path they are already on, to deal with someone yelling at them is just another reason in their mind to get high and forget reality if only for a little while.
If you have questions on how to deal with an addict please call Addiction Rehab Help, we can answer your questions and help you find the Addiction Treatment Program and Intervention Service that will end the cycle of addiction.
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Intervention
Sitting by and waiting for a loved one to ether die or ask for help is not the only option. Letting an addict hit bottom has been proven to be an out dated concept and is never a good idea, history has shown that the bottom is about six feet deep. When you’re dealing with an addict who will not admit he or she has a problem or is not willing to receive treatment, then an intervention is needed. There are nearly as many intervention services as there is Addiction-Treatment facilities, and like treatment facilities not all of them have high success rates. You need to know where to turn when it is time for an Intervention.
First, you need to have an addiction treatment facility picked out and be ready to admit your loved one after the intervention is completed successfully. Second you need to find qualified intervention services. While a pastor, priest or a local counselor may be willing to help, you usually only have one shot at a successful intervention so it needs to be done by qualified intervention professionals. You can always have your local priest or support network attending with you and the intervention professional.
A qualified intervention service with high success rates will not only work with the addict, but will spend the day before working with the family. They know the Intervention is going to be more difficult on the family than the addict, and they have to prepare the family for worst case scenarios. This can not all be completed in just a few hours before the intervention takes place – like some Interventionist will try to do.
If you’re ready to get the help needed to save your loved ones life contact Addiction Rehab Help for professional help in finding the best Intervention Team for your needs.
Please call 1-877-744-3536